Now it's been rough (2017) this year. Now usually I don't speak when it's concerns me. However this will help those dad's or understand things happen. I've never in all my years been on a roller-coaster ride when it comes to my own life. So here goes this year with demanding responsibilities of my job I felt drained. I'm one who will complete the job and speak up later. Don't get me wrong; I love my job because I have the opportunity to help others, make a difference in the lives of our community. As dads, we can make a difference because we all have experiences to help others.
Listen up, I'm not perfect. I've messed up so many times that I stopped counting. I used myself as a way to let dads know I'm no different from YOU. Relationships? Man, I've had my share of them, some good and many bad. You see, I know that to have a healthy relationship with the mother, girlfriend, fiance or wife is extremely important to how you treat your child or children. Now will you be tempted or confused at times? Hell Yeah! However, men that's when opportunity rises. Don't allowed circumstance or temptation take you off track of what God's has for you. Don’t be close minded; yes, I mentioned God. Listen throughout my years I've hurt others,not intentionally. When things are not working out in various situations, don't ever, ever, ever think the grass is greener on the other side. Fathers, my own mother made clear “Stop looking for Ms. Right, but you Be right”. What we say can be like a double edge sword, when we as men are in a mindset that's not desirable. Let's keep it real, but don't stop to reach out or take a moment with someone who will give it to you in your face. This person loves you and only wants your best interest. Having balance is such a beautiful thing. I love the people in my circle, I love my children just as much I love my woman. I'm only sharing this because someone has been or going through this right now. Don’t Give In! God’s got you. When you are ready He is there for you. Thank you for taking the time to read my blog.