Dads! Stop take the time to make sure your peace of mind is intact.

Dads! Stop take the time to make sure your peace of mind is intact.

Many times, we find ourselves hustling and busting to keep a happy home or a home to come to. Only to find out that it was in vain, do you know many men are screaming and wanting to check out. It’s not what many of you ladies think. Do you realize when a man feels he no longer can contribute or feel value (he’s saying my home and peace of mind cannot be sacrifice). Let me explain, you have a man that’s doing everything in power to keep the kids happy and the spouse, the years go by only to find out his efforts was pointless. Especially if he’s raising someone else kid or kids and they get amnesia all the love pours into them and your finances. He’s the main reason why you are where you are today. You want to question him do he care or love you. clearly his actions have proven this over the years. Men please be careful of damage goods in a woman it’s hard for them to change and old habits come back that you thought was lay at rest. Dads and men make sure she is mentally, and spiritually sound. This is why it’s important that before you say I do that you are truly evenly yoke. Some women are good of hiding who they are and what their interest truly are, and many times don’t match you. Good men are hard to find you're a good catch. The reason is, because you can get them out of the mess there in and at the same time put their children in a better situation. You should never find yourself in a situation where the both of you years later do not have similar interest or heading in the same direction. it takes away the time you could have been with someone that God has for you and save you both the headache. Here’s some steps to take to ensure you get close to the women God has for you.

1. What is your faith and relationship with God

2. Are you close to your dad, mom and family

3. What would you do differently if you had to go back and think about this

4. Allowed them to ask you a question that worth answering

5. Where do you see yourself in five years

6. How do you handle conflicts and disagreements

7. If I have a child or you how do see us raising a child or baby

8. What do you do to take care of yourself on a regular basis

9. Last thing is to make sure they understand what you expect in the relationship and allow them to do the same. Reason why you do this is that no one can come back and say that’s not the agreement we had...